Sunday, January 08, 2006

Sweet Revenge With Ex-es

I can totally understand and can accept (to a certain extent) an ex-couple to be good friends after they have broken up. They have after all shared certain amount of good and rough times together in the past and knows each other well enough, at least more than others.

What I cannot understand and will NEVER accept is for a girl/guy to expect her/his ex-es to STILL be around to support her/him emotionally (be it as friends or more than just friends) when the guy/girl has moved on happily with someone new in his/her life.

The term 'ex' means -- yes, we once loved and cared for each other but hey, there were differences we couldnt agree to and we thought separation will do each other more benefits than not, so lets just move and get on with our lives, shall we?!!

Ex-es should NEVER be our responsibilities.


Blogger Otto said...

I totally totally agree. This post of yours reminds me of one of my favourite relationship line, "He is called an 'ex' for a reason".

Exes are exes for a reason.

6:18 PM, January 08, 2006  
Blogger Lady Venom said...

thanks otto, for agreeing with me...i suppose the alarming fact here is that, a lot of ex-es are not aware that being ex-es to someone, they have a role to play--that is to STAY THE FUCK OUT OF THEIR EX-ES NEW FOUND LIVES!!!

You are not doing your ex any good or cushioning the impact of the break-up or helping ur ex to nurse his/her wounds by hanging around like a bad smell!!

2:13 AM, January 09, 2006  
Blogger Fashionasia said...

yah! Axe the ex'es!! X X X

12:25 PM, January 09, 2006  

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